Should BBW Date Bad Boys

C'mon on, you know the song . . . "Whatcha gonna do when they come for you. . . ."  Ah, the "bad boy," that elusive, narcissistic, somewhat dangerous, charismatic, and almost unattainable male. Oh yes and he's usually gorgeous! It's no wonder most women find them irresistible. But, is it a good idea to date a bad boy? 

It's unfortunate, but to a majority of bad boys women are a common commodity, a dime a dozen, and most of them won't think twice about cheating. A womanizing bad boy never has enough time for one woman but somehow finds plenty of time for lots of BBW. 

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For whatever reason, women have always had an attraction to bad boys. Whether it's the challenge of trying to domesticate a wild brute or the perception of becoming involved in an exciting relationship, when a woman dates a bad boy she tends to throw caution to the wind and jumps-in with both feet. 

Since the dawn of time the temptation to have what is forbidden has been tremendous. Dating a bad boy seems exciting. They take risks and the impression is that they live life to the fullest. Also, what an ego boost it is for a woman when a bad boy is interested in her, just imagine the exhilaration of winning the grand prize of having a bad boy fall in love with you! But, don’t hold your breath, bad boys tend not to fall in love easily.

Women may believe that a bad boy is irresistible but in reality he is indifferent, selfish, cocky, insensitive, self-centered, and he may also be disrespectful. Women will often mistake a bad boy's arrogance for confidence. Arrogance, however, is often a result of insecurity, while self-confidence comes from self-assurance. A confident person doesn't feel the need to humiliate others to feel better about himself, while the bad boy tends to demean those who would dare disagree with him. 

Bad boys don't ask for permission or need anyone's approval, they are the "alpha dog." They do what they want when they want; just as the song says, "I did it my way." Bad boys either don't care what others think or they pretend not to care and they often take advantage of people. Women waste their time and energy trying to get a bad boy to change and settle down. 

Also, just as a woman is attracted to a bad boy's masculinity, he is attracted by a woman's femininity and appearance. The womanizing bad boy is constantly searching for perfection, and when he discovers a woman's faults, it's time to move on to the next. Many times, if the bad boy does not want to go through a messy breakup, he will cheat on his girlfriend or wife. Eventually however, if he feels that he has found someone "better" he will move on.

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The seduction of dating a bad boy is strong; women are fascinated and often even spellbound, but if you fall for a bad boy your love will most likely be unrequited. Either your bad boy will not be emotionally invested enough in the relationship to realize that you have such deep feelings or he will not care. 

Unless you're the type of person who feels that a one-sided love is better than none, guard your heart and do not fall in love with the bad boy.  A bad boy is the center of two worlds, his and the woman who's in love with him, while the woman is the center of none.

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If you're interested in finding love, a bad boy is the last person you should consider dating. However, if all you're interested in is having a good time with no commitment and no emotional strings attached, then dating a bad boy might not be such a bad option. 

Do you want to date a bad boy? You can meet several of them in places such as bars, nightclubs, parties, through friends, and sometimes even at work. Seldom, however, will you meet the typical bad boy in places such as charitable events, volunteer activities, church, or anywhere where self-sacrificing is encouraged. 

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Millions of women love to read romance novels and there's nothing wrong with that. But many women mistakenly believe that, like the characters in a book who start off as bad boys and eventually turn into devoted partners, they will find someone just like that. The odds, however, are against them. Most bad boys don't want to give up their lifestyle to become someone's husband. 

Women need to dream differently! Who says nice guys have to always finish last? They are the true diamonds in the rough and several women miss out on healthy and loving relationships because of certain ideals or dreams they have about how men should look or act. 

Some bad boys will grow-up and want a family but others will remain boys their entire lives. Those "boys," unlike the characters of a romance novel, will one day be old men. The unfortunate thing about these men is that they will continue to chase after young girls in an endless attempt to continually relive the glory days of their youth. 

Eventually, most women will get over their bad boy syndrome and realize there's another world out there where men arrive on time for a date, care what a woman thinks, have high morals and standards, and don't think "commitment" is a dirty word. These men can also be edgy and exciting, but in a different way, a better way. After all, it's pretty edgy to say to your partner; "Honey, you're the only game in town!" referring to the fact that he is not interested in anyone but you. 

So, should women date bad boys? Here's my answer; Ladies, stop focusing on the bad boys and start zeroing in on the good men!